It was a beautiful evening in Port Perry, Ontario. I was visiting my parents at the trailer on lake Scugog. While watching the sunset at the beach I overheard from about 100 yards away a couple arguing. I thought nothing of this until the male started to become violent. He was raising his voice in anger and began hitting inatimate objects around him to make his point.
That little voice in my head said I should go over there and do something. So I did. I approached slowly as the arguing ensued. When I got to within 15 feet the two stopped arguing and split up. For what seemed like an eternity, but couldn't have been more than 5 minutes, I stood between them not saying a word. She was sitting on a bench, and he was pacing back and forth fuming. Now that I was close I could see that she was in her mid 30's while he was only about 16 years old.
Eventually I decided to approach the boy. I introduced myself and we started talking. The boy opened up. We talked for over an hour, and as it turns out he doesn't understand why he gets so upset, but it gets to the point where he scares himself. I gave him some advise that I learned from Dr. Joe Vitale. It is the Ho-oponopono method and it utilizes the theory of auto-suggestion. I told the boy to repeat the following phrases to himself everyday:
I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you.
In doing this he would never be the same. Try it, you will be surprised at the results.
Your mind is like a garden. If you leave it unattended, weeds will grow without you being aware. You must pull out the weeds and plant good seeds to have great results.
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